Online dating is a great way to contact and meet new
people. Either for free or for a small fee you can have access
to thousands of singles looking for love.
However it is an unfortunate fact that whilst the vast majority
of people using these services are decent law abiding citizens
looking for love there are those that seek to exploit the
vulnerabiltiy of singles online.
A common trick comes from African or Eastern European nationals
who e-mail users with tales of family deaths, large inheritences and
if only they could get across to the UK if you pay them some money
they would share this money with you. They often ask for your
private e-mail address for "privacy" purposes.
Of course this is a scam pure and simple, yet some users may be
caught out and it is important to learn to identify these
scams.
Tips
Firstly do not be fooled by their profile details - their sign
up information may say they are from the UK, United States etc.. but
this does not mean they are. More often than not they are
sitting in an internet cafe in Africa.
Secondly check for language and spelling - broken English is
often a good sign of a scam.
Thirdly do they seem overly interested in you - remember if it
is too good to be true it usually is
Fourthly are they requesting personal details. Often these
scammers will request your e-mail address for "security"
reasons.
How do I protect myself
NEVER give out personal details, even an e-mail address unless
you know the person. Nearly all online dating sites offer a
secure internal e-mail system whereby you can chat to users without
revealing any of your personal details.
If you do suspect a member is attempting to commit a crime then
report them to the dating site administrator who will take the
neccessary action against the offender. If you are sure it is
a scam then also report the user to their ISP who may then disable
their e-mail.
Remember despite this the majority of users of online dating
services are genuwine decent people. A bit of caution however
could stop you getting caught out.
This article was written by Marc Newman owner and webmaster of
the UK Dating service Love2flirt. If you are single and are
from the UK then please visit us below