Without doubt, online dating has become the most popular way of finding a companion. However, when done wrong it can be a frustrating experience.  Here are a few tips on finding a mate online.

1. Sign up with the right online dating community. Now, most people equate social networking (social media if you like) to dating services. But if you're serious about meeting compatible singles, you should go for a real dating site. Free dating sites and social networking sites have too many practical jokers and time-wasters. These will largely be absent in paid sites (why pay to waste time when you can do it for free?).

2. Be safe. Yet another case for signing up with a paid site: a credit card leaves a paper trail. This can help track down a person, which helps eliminate many of the nut jobs. Not that there are zero number of weird characters in paid sites, but they will be much less than on free sites. You still need to do your due diligence such as not giving away personal info too soon.

3. Post a good ad. Your personal ad, also known as your personal profile, is the most important aspect in finding a mate online. Post a good photo of yourself as profiles without photos hardly receive responses. Write a good ad describing yourself (but without giving away personal info) and what you want. Write in your own way and your own words. You can study others' profiles that you like and model them without copying them.

4. Let your photos say more about you. Some dating sites allow members to post more than one photo. Take advantage of this and show some aspects about you that could help attract a mate. If you're proud of your figure, let it show in at least one photo but try not to go over the top. Did you mention something about your passions or hobbies? Let it show. If you said you love dogs, a picture of you and your dog could help attract a like-minded single.

5. Keep exes out of the picture. Do not lambast an ex on your dating profile or while communicating with a potential date. Likewise, if your spouse or lover has passed on, please try not to talk about it during the beginning of a new relationship. This might be a signal that you may not be ready for a new relationship. No one can ever replace a lost loved one, but you could still find a happy relationship with a new person. We are all unique.

6. Make connections. Women especially have the tendency to wait to be contacted. Perhaps it is because they get way too many responses in addition to the old tradition of waiting for the guy to make the first move. But you could get upwards of a thousand responses and not one suitable mate. Initiate contact with singles you like. It's a two-way traffic.

7. Be honest. Don't lie about your age, body type and the like. One of the biggest complaints from people trying to find a mate online is the rampant lying. People become what they wish they were instead of who they really are. Be yourself. Lies have a way of coming back to haunt you.

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