Many people seeking love, romance and companionship online ask the question, "What is the best internet dating service?"

Indeed, is there a way to determine whether or not a dating service will help you meet your long-term (or even short-term if that's what you want) partner? More on How to Find the Best Internet Dating Service for You

There are arguments for or against fee and pay (subscription) dating services. And, granted, many happy relationships have originated from both types. But should you go with a free dating site, or social networking site for that matter or a paid subscription dating service?

Well let’s start by looking at the advantages and disadvantages of the two:

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Many newcomers to online dating don't consider the pros and cons before undertaking this new service. Do you know the best approach to making sure this dating service is right for you? How do you guarantee your own safety? And is this the right choice for me?

These are just a few questions newcomers to online dating face all the time. With some well thought out questions, everyone can come to the right conclusion of what's best for them. Here are a few brief tips:

One of the most important strategies is to develop an outline of pros and cons. This will lead you to your answer. Consider the specific needs that should be met by the dating service, and find websites that cater to those needs.

The Pros of Online Dating:

1. Dating sites allow members to meet more people than they would without such sites.

2. It's a more convenient way of meeting people without leaving own home.

3. You can browse members' profiles and understand their interests before deciding to communicate with them.

4. You can find people with the same interest, and know whether they are looking for friendship, casual dating, or a serious relationship right away.

5. Communicate anonymously and you don't have to give out too much personal information to begin.

6. You're able to get know people's personalities by chatting online first

7. Geographical boundaries can be crossed, and members can meet people in distant locations and exotic areas.

8. Online dating services allow users to socialize with other singles in a convenient, inexpensive way.

9. Members can determine if there's chemistry before pursuing the relationship in real life.

The Cons of Online Dating

1. Misrepresentations in age, gender, physical attributes, or socio-economic status.

2. Intentions could be deceiving.

3. Profile pictures can be a hoax.

4.Breeding ground for Stalkers and sexual predators – this happens more often in free sites.

5. Some may join the site solely to view content and are not really potential matches – another common problem with free dating sites.

Most importantly, how you decide to proceed with online dating is completely dependent upon your personal comfort level. Proceed at your own pace; be comfortable with what you're doing; if hesitant, perhaps it's not the right choice; and remember to have fun.